Waiting Child: Meet *Lily!


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PD: A girl stands against a white wall, wearing a traditional Indian sari that is hot pink, blue, & gold w/ paisley accents & sparkly glitter. Her hands are at her sides, wearing blue bangles.

Update February 2018: Learn more about *Lily, and all the kids who are currently listed with Reece’s Rainbow, at the Reece’s Rainbow SCH listing master post here.

*Lily longs for a family so badly. She really wants a daddy to tuck her in at night (and of course a mommy, too), and would be an absolute joy to any family. She would love to have siblings, as well. She really loves on all the foster siblings in her home, and gets sad when they are adopted. She has now watched 4 kids at least be adopted, and often wonders aloud when her family will come for her. Foster mom Nikki writes about *Lily here.

An undated update to her RR page stated the following:

*Lily is doing well on ARVs, and her viral load is currently undetectable. *Lily gets around by crawling, walking with support from an adult, or walking with her gait trainer. She receives physical therapy daily, and is working to improve her walking. She loves dancing and attends dance class in the community. Her communication is improving quickly and she is speaking in sentences, although it is hard for some people to understand her. She is intelligent and attends school, knows the alphabet, is learning to read, can type on the iPad, knows her colors, can count objects to 15, can do simple math problems, [and attends to her own self-care needs as possible, with supports from an adult if necessary]. She is just starting to sound out words when reading, and can spell short words. She has great potential to learn, if given the appropriate interventions.

She builds strong attachments to her caregivers, getting sad when any adult she loves goes on vacation. She is a family girl at heart, and adores the family she has in her group home, but longs for the stability that adoption would bring. She is beautiful inside and out, and there is something very special about her. She loves to pray for her friends when they are sad or hurt. She likes to take care of the other children, and particularly makes a point to include the kids who are less physically able than she is. She is very bright and has a deep desire to learn. She is an old soul and while she definitely has a silly, goofy side, she enjoys the company of adults. She longs to be adopted, and asks frequently if a Mommy and Daddy are coming.

 


 

Update June 2017: Lily is now listed on Reece’s Rainbow! Find her profile to inquire about her adoption or donate to her adoption grant here. Her foster sister, *Chloe, is also listed on Reece’s Rainbow. Profile here.

RR Profile:

Known as *Lily by her committed volunteers, she recently had a big celebration for her 12th birthday. *Lily is described as a caretaker with a bright, warm and joy filled personality. She loves to wear new dresses and new shoes, play with baby dolls, read books, color, laugh, give hugs and dance. She works with a gait trainer to walk for her cerebral palsy, but it’s noted that she has a preference to run. With the trainer, she is able to kick a soccer ball and use a scooter standing up. She is able to speak, uses a communication program so she is able to share her thoughts and needs with others, and has started to spell and read short phonetic words. Her volunteer notes that *Lily has an understanding of what it means to have a forever family and has a strong desire to have this herself.

“Why hasn’t anyone chosen her? Don’t they know how amazing she is? Can’t they see how much joy she would bring to their family? Can’t they see that she is so much more than her cerebral palsy? That she is smart, she loves to laugh, she is gentle, and loves going to church. Her cerebral palsy doesn’t define her.”

– *Lily’s foster mother [Nikki]

*Lily is diagnosed with spastic quadriplegic cerebral palsy and HIV. She’s reported to be an eager learner and receives physical, speech, and occupational therapies [at home].

Eligible families may qualify for a grant through her current agency.

*** I am eligible for an Older Child Grant! Grant funding is dependent on a completed application and available funds.  For more information, visit: Other Angels Older Child Grant ***

 


 

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*Lily from Courage Purple, a foster home at Sarah’s Covenant Homes (website) (Facebook page), is currently one of Children’s Home Society/Lutheran Social Service of Minnesota (CHS/LSSM)’s featured waiting children on their blog!

Learn more about *Lily and how to adopt her by reading the article here.

Please share this post or the original posting on your social media! If we signal boost *Lily and more and more of the world gets to learn how amazing she is, I know she will find her family!

From *Lily’s summary page:

Eligible families may qualify for a grant through CH/LSS[M] and Brittany’s Hope Foundation [click the link to learn more about BHF].

More financing resources can be found here.

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PD: *Lily, facing away from the camera, using her gait trainer to walk across the balcony,  wears a black dress w/ heart-shaped cutout. Her hair is in a bun & she is wearing jingly ankle chains.

*Lily currently lives in a foster home with 9 foster brothers and sisters, and 2 co-foster mothers (Nikki and Merissa, whom I’ve spoken about and shared anecdotes from before, as well as their respective adopted daughters). She uses a communication device to speak and is using a adaptive walker to walk (see photo above)! She can also ride an adapted bike. She is very smart and speaks and understands both English and Telugu.

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Photo description: *Lily, wearing a gray dress, rides a bike adapted for people w/ disabilities; it has straps to keep her feet on the pedals.

You can also read about a little girl named *Livy, who has also been featured by CHS/LSSM! *Livy lives in another foster home. Read her story here.

Excerpt about eligibility, from the agency’s website:

GENERAL ELIGIBILITY REQUIREMENTS

All applicants must be between the ages of 25-55; financially capable, physically, mentally and emotionally stable and without any life-threatening conditions. Heterosexual couples married at least two years and single women may be eligible. Families cannot have more than four children already in the home.

To adopt through CHS/LSSM, you must meet some additional requirements depending on the country from which you are attempting to adopt. General information on international adoptions can be found here. Note that you may not be able to adopt from this particular agency if you live in certain states, but that children are sometimes listed with multiple adoption agencies in order to reach a wider audience and ultimately find that child’s forever family that much faster.

There are many resources available on CHS/LSSM’s website.

*A note about names  & identities:

SCH & CHS/LSSM aren’t allowed to publicly share identifying names or photos of children available for adoption from India online due to privacy standards set by the government. Therefore, partial photographs and online alias names are  used. If you are interested in adopting *Lily, *Livy, or any other child from India, photos, videos, names, and medical information can be shared by inquiring with the agency that has the child listed.

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PD: SCH logo – black text reads ‘sch’; red text below reads ‘sarah’s covenant homes’; heart-shaped flowers bloom from the name.
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6 comments

  1. […] Update 2017: Lily no longer attends the school she previously attended, due to their neglect  and refusal to treat Lily equally. Though she is sighted, she attends classes at Anjali School for the Blind, and has daily therapy and lessons from her foster mothers in speech and augmentative communication using an iPad app called Proloquo2Go, which is a programmable app that allows Lily to customize her communication with others. She has a variety of choices from which to choose on this board and she can build sentences on this device, then press a button that reads what she has said aloud. It is helping to improve her independence greatly! Lily receives regular physical therapy and is walking using a gait trainer. She’s so amazing! She now lives at Courage Home Purple, with her 2 co-foster mothers and 13 siblings. Lily is available and listed for adoption! Read more here. […]

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